A surprise dinner-party outfit

Thrifting can be unexpected. There may be something tucked away on a rack or a shelf that you didn’t expect to find – or like for that matter. Several weeks ago I was invited to a friend’s house for a dinner party. The concept seemed a bit old fashioned. Honestly, I wasn’t aware that people still hosted dinner parties. When I hear the term “dinner party”, my mind darts to the episode of The Office when Jim and Pam are verbally trapped into attending a dinner party (a.k.a ultimate fiasco) at Michael’s condo. Nonetheless, I was happy to accept her invitation.

When the first of June came, in my mind, I had already planned to throw together an outfit from my closet before meeting up with a friend who agreed to be my plus one. I set out for Savers that afternoon for a totally different reason: I needed a blazer for a job interview the following week. As I pushed my cart up and down the various aisles, I started a pile of blazer and skirt options to take to the fitting room. As I headed toward the fitting rooms, I passed the dresses. As always, I stopped and glanced through my size. I pulled out a classy cream number with a beautiful pattern. “Oh, what the heck!”, I thought as I threw the dress on my growing pile.

Surprisingly, it fit like a glove. The dress had a slimming effect and a modest style – the perfect equation for a classy dinner party. It was after trying it on that everything fell into place: I found a pair of classy sandals, a spacious brown purse and a soft, cream-colored sweater. In less than five minutes, I’d assembled an entire outfit to wear to the 7 p.m. dinner party. With a black blazer in hand, in addition to my dinner party attire, I walked out spending just $30. The dress was the most expensive item – $14.99 – but after cashing in a $5 off coupon, I brought it down to $10. What a deal!


Dress, sweater, sandals and purse combo


Black blazer for job interview

After being complimented on my outfit as we walked up the drive to the townhome address, my friend couldn’t believe that everything I was wearing was purchased just hours before at a local Savers. To be honest, neither could I.


Pre-summer shopping spree

I’ve never been a huge fan of summer. The profuse sweating, the painful sunburns, the pesky mosquitos and my list could go on. My primary reason is relentless summertime allergies, which are basically prompted by nature in general. While allergy medicine works most of the time, it’s easier for me to simply take the path of avoidance. Unfortunately, that’s not always possible since I enjoy going swimming and partaking in the cliche summer activities. So when the 90-degree weather came out of nowhere this year and I only found one pair of shorts in my closet, I knew I was ill-prepared.

Luckily this realization was made before Memorial Day, so when Savers emailed to remind me about their 50% off sale, I marked my calendar accordingly. At 10:30 a.m. on Saturday May 26, I marched through the doors to storm their summer selection. Saturday was their member-only pre-sale with the following day being expanded to the public. For about 90 minutes, I filled my cart with shorts, tanks, shirts, skirts, summer dresses and sandals. The line for the fitting rooms was a mile long, so I made sure to commit to one trip to avoid agonizing wait times. I walked in and out of my fitting room ast least four times to try everything on.

Out of all the items in my cart, 18 were winners: nine shirts, two capris, four shorts and three dresses. After 50% off and not including tax, the grand total was $63.32. This was the most I’ve spent at Savers in a long time, but after you see the condition of some of the clothes, I think you’ll be as surprised as I was. Only in a thrift store would I be able to spend that amount of money and walk out with that many items.

Go ahead and bring on the 90-degree weather Kansas, I’m ready – clothing-wise at least.

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Shopping on the wild side

As a thrifter, I rarely have a reason to visit the Oak Park Mall despite it being less than five minutes from my apartment. Every time I drive by, nearly all the parking spaces are full, which means the mall is crawling with people hustling from one store to the next. While I’ve dealt with busy thrift stores, a mall is a whole other world in terms of busyness. It’s loud, chaotic and overwhelming. I only brave the chaos when I have a good enough reason, and for my birthday, I got one. One of the presents was a $50 Maurices gift card from my godmother.

During the first week of 2018, I ventured to the mall at 9:50 a.m. and waited in my car for 10 minutes until it opened. I made certain to park near the entrance closest to Maurices, so I didn’t have to walk through the entire mall. I was their first customer of the day, which meant I received special attention from the salespeople. With a frugal mindset, I stayed in the clearance section. Lucky for me, they were having a huge sale where all clearance tops were $6.95/each.

Since I’m in between pant sizes right now, I focused on tops. After several trips to the dressing room, I finally decided on six winners. These shirts ranged from casual to dressy, which was perfect for an upcoming trip I had to Washington D.C. in mid-January.


After all six items were rung up, the total was only $45. I wanted to spend the whole $50 on one visit, so I grabbed a pair of $8 earrings to finish it off. Given Maurices’ usual pricing ($30+ for shirts), I was impressed with how much I’d gotten within the $50 parameters. I will admit, it was a nice change to buy brand new clothing that wasn’t pre-worn and had zero chance of stains or holes. But like I said, shopping in a mall isn’t something I do often. It only happens when a gift card is taking up space in my wallet. 👚💰

Couch found by Christmas

Moving into a new space is an ongoing process. Whether a house or apartment, everyone has a little shopping to do after the transition. For me, I needed certain furniture pieces, like a TV and couch, and household items, like a vacuum cleaner and dish drying rack. With Christmas last Monday, I received several things as gifts, which helped shrink my list tremendously.

As most of you know, I found a 43-inch Vizio TV for Black Friday and a cheap black TV stand at Blessings Abound at the end of November. So after those finds, the only missing piece of furniture was a couch. I’d been casually searching every since I moved in with no luck. I didn’t want to spend hundreds of dollars on a brand new couch, but I also didn’t want a stained, pre-worn couch from a thrift store. Then a few weeks after Thanksgiving per the recommendation of a co-worker, I looked on Facebook Marketplace.

The great thing about Facebook Marketplace is you can search by item name, category, location, price or “free”. After I inputted my search factors, I started scrolling through dozens of couches. Some were better than others. I kept scrolling until I came across a dark brown microfiber couch for $175 in Prairie Village. It was from Nebraska Furniture Mart and was owned by one person for less than a year in a smoke-free, pet-free home. I sent the owner a message asking if he’d accept $100 due to a tiny tear and scuff mark and waited.


After a short conversation that answered all my questions, I decided to move forward. With the help of my boyfriend and his brother-in-law’s truck, we drove to Prairie Village to collect the couch the Wednesday before Christmas. I was very lucky to have two strong men with me who were familiar with transferring furniture. An hour later the couch was situated in my apartment. Then after Christmas, it was decorated with blue throw pillows and a sequin pillow (gifts from my brother and sister).


“It’s so nice to be able to lounge and watch TV whenever I want on this comfy couch. It was a true Christmas miracle for only $100.”

God provides for the frugal

When you’ve shopped at thrift stores for as long as I have, the concept of saving money starts integrating into your daily choices. Soon you’re looking at the price tags on everything – not just clothes – to make sure you’re not paying too much. While being frugal has its perks, it can get to the point of absurdity if you let it. When I moved out, I became extremely cautious about spending. While I did have a steady stream of income, I didn’t want to freely spend it. This is why I searched for “free” furniture from relatives and only went grocery shopping when I absolutely had to.

My boyfriend finally called me out on how ridiculous I was being. I had over $10K in my checking account and yet I was refusing to spend money on groceries. My paranoid frugality had also affected my search for a TV and TV stand. I knew if I held out until Black Friday, I’d spend less. Having never purchased a TV, I wasn’t exactly sure what classified as a ‘good deal.’ I was told the best brands were Samsung, Sony, and Vizio, and the best size would be around 40″. So when my boyfriend called at 5 p.m. Thanksgiving Day to tell me he was at Walmart and could pick up a TV, I was ready to hear the Black Friday deals.

One of their Black Friday deals was a 43″ Vizio for $198. While this sounded like a great deal, my frugal state of mind kicked in and caused a 10-minute montage of second-guessing while my boyfriend sighed on the other end. I finally told him to grab one once the sale started, and at exactly 6 p.m. a text message stated that he’d succeeded. While I was not thrilled about $200 leaving my checking account, I knew it was worth it to FINALLY have a TV in my apartment.

The next challenge was finding the right TV stand to put the 43″ Vizio on. In my mind, I could picture my ideal stand: a moderate-sized unit with open shelving to accommodate DVDs, a PS3, etc. My strong desire to save money made me hesitant when browsing thrift stores. After seeing the grungy options at a Salvation Army on Saturday, we stopped by Blessings Abound, a Christian thrift store, to browse their section. Most pieces were dressers until my boyfriend pointed out a black TV stand with a price tag that read $19. I couldn’t believe it.

After bringing the tag to the front to pay, I was told I’d get an extra 35% off (partly because it was a Black Friday deal on furniture and partly because I was taking it with me that day). The total came out to be $14. God truly provided for the frugal part of me with my ideal TV stand that was only a couple scratches away from perfection.


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Apartment layout: TBD

My living situation drastically changed less than two months ago. Before October 7, 2017, I was Amy, 23-year-old woman living in her parents’ basement, and now I am Amy, 23-year-old woman living in her very own apartment. It’s an exciting lifestyle change with several advantages (designing the layout, controlling the thermostat, leaving dirty dishes in the sink, having company over whenever, etc.) along with a couple downsides (increased anxiety and occasional loneliness).

It’s a big step into adulthood when you strike out on your own. When I look around my one bed/one bath apartment knowing it’s mine … it’s a great feeling. My 618 sq./ft. apartment currently features a hodge-podge of furniture: foldable chairs from my parents’ house, bar stools from a family friend, a nightstand from my aunt, a bed from my grandpa, etc. I won’t be able to put finishing touches on the apartment’s layout and design until I have three key components: couch, TV and a TV stand.

Luckily with the holidays right around the corner, I’ve crafted an Apartment Wish List that features all the items I still need. Now instead of being pestered by family and friends, I can direct everyone to the same list for birthday/Christmas presents. After hearing about my big move, many relatives and friends offered me items for FREE, which was a huge money saver. The less I can spend on furnishing my new apartment, the better off I’ll be savings-wise.

But I highly doubt I’ll find every single thing I need for FREE, so at that point I will narrow my search within the walls of thrift stores like Turnstyles and Blessings Abound: two stores with extensive furniture and home decor sections. 👍🏼🏡

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City Thrift review

City Thrift is one of the newer thrift stores in Overland Park. One location on Antioch and College Blvd. opened its doors well after I was hooked on bargain hunting. Being 10 minutes away, I was eager to explore its racks and shelves when I first heard about it. It’s spacious design and diverse selection impressed me immediately, just like Savers. They sell clothing, furniture, housewares, shoes, accessories and movies/books/music. Every category houses it’s own section, making the store easy to navigate.


One aspect that makes City Thrift stand out is it’s entirely non-profit. One hundred percent of funding goes toward City Union Mission, the store’s owner. The goal of City Union Mission is helping less fortunate people in impoverished countries by recycling and shipping all unsold store items to those countries.

“So not only does City Thrift help their customers spend less money on basic necessities, but they do their part to look out for our international brothers and sisters who may be struggling.” 

Similar to Savers, City Thrift sponsors a variety of sales. Examples include 50% OFF clothing and accessories and $1 media day (books and movies are only a dollar). Unlike Savers, none of the sales is member-exclusive. It’s first-come, first-serve. Doors usually open at 7 a.m., so if you want the best selection – be there EARLY. On more than one occasion I’ve walked out of a 50% OFF sale with a bag of clothes for less than $30.

Two complaints I harbor toward City Thrift are the limited number of dressing rooms and narrow aisles. There are only three dressing rooms in City Thrift. When the store is dead, this doesn’t pose an issue. However, when the store is abuzz and everyone needs to try on their clothes – the waiting period can be grueling. Despite the spacious store design, the aisles are extremely narrow. It’s impossible to maneuver your cart past a fellow customer in the same aisle. It’s best to give up and go the other way unless you want to engage in an awkward shuffle with a stranger.

But the pros outweigh the cons, which is why I haven’t stopped shopping at City Thrift. I’m not going to surrender potential thrifting finds just because I sometimes have to wait for a dressing room and pick a different aisle if someone occupies the one I want. It’s worth the trouble when you see their extensive selection.